Monic and mother Tetiana
When a bomb exploded outside her home in Ukraine, Tetiana knew it was time to leave.
“In that moment, I decided: Enough,” she says. “I was not prepared for this situation.”
Soon, Tetiana, her five-month-old daughter Monic, her 13-year-old nephew, Nikita, and her 71-year-old mother, Mariam made their way to Romania, and found shelter in a refugee centre operating out of a school building.
Having left in such haste, Tetiana, a piano teacher, has lost her livelihood and is not sure how she will support her family. However, she is far more concerned about taking care of Monic and Nikita. Monic sustained a brain injury at birth and requires special care, while Nikita has been under her care since his mother – Tetiana’s sister – passed away a few years ago.
“I waited 10 years for this baby,” Tetiana says.” She spent all her savings to prepare for Monic’s arrival and rent an apartment. “And now this has happened in my country. We’ve lost everything.” Tetiana brought some of Monic’s special food from Ukraine, but she needs more.
“It’s a little Ukrainian girl. Our future. And I must protect her.”
World Vision has been responding to the initial needs of refugee families fleeing from Ukraine like Tetiana and Monic’s by supporting existing shelters, offering somewhere for families to stay. Safe playing spaces have also been set up for children, while awareness sessions are held to help families protect themselves and their children from human traffickers.
The Lost Childhood: Fatima
Fatima and her family were amongst the first to flee the deadly conflict in Syria in 2011. Fatima spent a decade of her young life as a refugee. Settling into Jordan was difficult enough. Sadly, she lost her father a few years later.
In desperation, Fatima's mother saw only one solution. “My mother was forced to marry me to my cousin so he could take care of us and provide for us,” she says. Fatima was just 14 when she was married. She had no choice but to leave school, and she did not know what was expected of her as a wife. Soon afterwards, Fatima fell pregnant and had her first child.
Fatima was on the verge of losing all hope, but things began to turn around when she learnt about a World Vision Support Centre that offered women and girls psychological support and education sessions. “I visited the Centre and registered in the young mothers’ club, and learnt many things that strengthened my self-confidence,” Fatima says. She developed new communication skills that help improve the relationships in her family, and was also able to go back to school to continue her interrupted education.
Fatima now speaks out against child marriage and the importance of girls completing their education. She connects with other young women around the world on social media to support them, and give them tools to find help in abusive situations.
Jannatul, a Survivor of Conflict
Jannatul, a 5-year-old Rohingya girl, lives in a refugee camp in Cox’s Bazar, Bangladesh. Two years ago, she was living in Rakhine State, Myanmar, with her family. Her parents had a garden and cattle, and the family led a good life. But that summer, everything changed overnight.
In late August 2017, conflict erupted in Rakhine, turning many Rohingya villages into battlefields. As Salima, Jannatul’s mother, recalls, “Our homes were set on fire and burned to the ground. People were running everywhere.” Jannatul and her mother survived, only to find out that her father was shot and her two siblings were stabbed to death. That night, the two began running for their survival to Bangladesh, following thousands of fellow villagers.
It was a strenuous journey, but eventually they made it to the camp. “We walked for a week in the rain, and for three days we didn’t eat,” says Salima. “Jannatul was about to die when another family shared some food with us.” They also saw many people dead along the way.
Sited on hilly terrain with limited space, the camp is in poor condition and liable to disasters like monsoons and landslides, which puts the lives of over 900,000 refugees at great risk.
World Vision is currently assisting Salima and other families in need by providing access to clean water and supplementary food, as well as materials such as concrete and bamboos for refugees to reinforce their homes against monsoons. Jannatul also enjoys attending World Vision’s Child Friendly Space where she can play and learn with other refugee children and support one another. Please continue to help these refugees as they rebuild their livelihoods and recover from the painful and traumatic experiences.
Jannatul (middle on phone screen) lost both of her siblings overnight. This photo of the trio on her mother’s phone is now the only surviving memory of them.
Though still a young child, Jannatul has to help her mother fetch water and perform other household chores in the refugee camp.
Jannatul regularly attends World Vision’s Child Friendly Space. Her favourite activities include drawing and reading picture books.
Sara
When younger, Sara used to live in a spacious house with her family and led a life of harmony. Her father enjoyed playing with the children. However, as conflict broke out in 2011, Sara’s life was turned around in an instant. She was only ten. “Before the war started, nothing worried me. Everything was okay.”
Sara recalls how militants stormed into her community one day to loot and kill. In the night, the noises of bombing and shooting would wake her up. The militants even tried to break into her house, which made her very worried about her family’s safety. Sadly, her beloved father was consequently kidnapped. “They ran over him and then they shot him and then burned him,” says Sara. Missing her father deeply, she adds, “I wanted to see him. I wanted to kill myself.”
Fearing for their safety as the conflict intensified, the family followed Sara’s mother and fled by night. Sara was only able to pack some clothes, a family album and a watch given by her father. She was always holding the album and the watch to reminisce the good times they had. “I just want my father to come back.”
Upon reaching the temporary settlements in Lebanon, Sara and her family could only cram into a tiny and stuffy tent with a few other families. The infrastructure in this community is poor, but Sara still feels that life is better here than in Syria. At least, she no longer has to worry about bombings. She is working hard on her studies and hopes to become a judge in the future.
World Vision is actively assisting Syrian refugees in Lebanon, helping children like Sara overcome their traumatic experiences of war. Through Child Friendly Spaces and other forms of education assistance, displaced children are able to continue their education and see their hopes restored.
Before the conflict, Sara was living a carefree life, a stark contrast to her current life in the temporary settlements.
Apart from overcoming the pain of losing her father, Sara also bears the responsibility of taking care of her younger brother.
Sara packed a photo album when she fled, and would look at the photos when she misses her father.
Provide 5 refugee families with seeds in a year, so as to help open up livelihood opportunities, and ensure them a stable supply of food and income.
Provide 4 conflict-affected children early childhood education in a year, equipping them with the necessary knowledge to catch up on their studies when formal schooling is available.
Provide 10 conflict-affected children Child Friendly Spaces in a year, that they can play, learn and receive psychosocial support, and be protected from child labour and human trafficking.
Since last century, World Vision has been responding to the world’s most urgent disasters and humanitarian crises, by delivering timely aids to conflicted and vulnerable areas. The goal of World Vision is to be “first in” and “last out”—seeing families and communities through hardship to restoration.
As soon as conflict erupts, the displaced lack basic necessities such as food, clean water and shelter, and live in constant hunger, illness and fear. You can help them regain the capacity to thrive.
In areas affected by conflict, infrastructure is often destroyed or inadequate. Families are unable to make ends meet, meaning that children live with limited assurance. You can help them rebuild livelihoods.
During conflicts or crises, children are traumatised by the inevitable separation from, or the loss of, their loved ones, and left to live in despair. You can help them build a future.